– Head Hair: I just say keep it washed, neat, and clean. Maintain your hairstyle.
– Mustache: Keep it trimmed. If you have a mustache be proud of it… remember that episode of Family Guy where Peter had mustache… too funny, here’s a clip.
– Beard: I feel like even if it’s scruffy, make it neatly scruffy… unless you’re trying out for some kind of role in a movie in which you’re playing a bum, or hippie, or mountain man.
– Nose hair: Keep small clippers, nose hair trimmer, or tweezers around to clip away any hairs that are hanging out of your nose.
– Chest: I don’t think you should really worry about shaving your chest, unless you’re just extremely hairy. Most guys have the right amount of hair here.
– Arm pits: A guy with no pit hair would seem a bit off to me (unless you play a sport in which you needed to be hairless), but with that said I don’t think you should let it get too out of control. I would suggest mildly trimming your pit hairs down maybe about twice a year… it just all depends on how much pit hair you grow and how fast it grows back.
Ways to remove the hair
Alternatives: Waxing, Laser Hair Removal, etc.
Please note: Most African-American males have to put more care into shaving. Here’s some shaving advice for African-American males… (this mainly is for facial hair).
- Applying a shaving lotion after shaving will reduce the appearance of redness. This is also great for women after shaving legs, bikini lines and underarms.
- Be sure to always use a clean blade when shaving with a razor. This can be best achieved by only using new blades and discarding ones that have been previously used three or more times.
- If you use an electric razor, replace the rotary blades or foil after a few months. Of course if you’re required to shave daily, you may have to replace them sooner. This can be a headache since many rotary blade components cost more than half of what the entire razor is worth.
- While shaving with a handheld razor, always shave in the direction of hair growth. Most hair on men’s faces, slant downward, so be sure to shave in that direction. This is also important around the neck areas since shaving against the grain is one of the main causes of pointy, sharp hairs that can burrow back into the skin.
- Don’t stretch your skin while shaving. Pulling your cheeks, chin or neck while shaving in order to get a closer shave, can cause darkness and discoloration of underlying skin tissue. This is especially true for light and fair-skinned Black men who have dark, prominently textured hair.
- Watch what you eat. A lot of skin irritations may subside if certain foods are avoided. Fatty foods, foods containing oils, cholesterol and sodium, can make your skin more susceptible to damage while shaving.
- Give up on razors and use a depilatory. Depilatories work well on most skin, but not on all. They can remove facial hair in a matter of minutes, but just like blade shaving, can cause a bit of irritation and redness. Be careful not to use alcohol-based aftershaves or creams immediately after using a depilatory. Mixing the two is like throwing flames onto your face.
- Grow a beard. This may not be the best solution for those required to shave daily, such as the military and other business professions. But if you can swing it, why not? You will totally eliminate the razor bump worries and ingrown hair issues. Even better, you can get rid of those sharp blades!
More advice (some tips may repeat).
• Always use a sharp razor blade and discard old blades after 4-5 uses. You might think this is excessive, but dull blades force black men to go over the same area of skin again and again, increasing the chances of irritation and improperly cutting hair. This goes for electric razors, too: replace the blades after every few months of use.
• Reduce your number of shaves by shaving every other day. Giving the skin time to heal will allow hairs to grow straight through the skin’s surface, without forcing too-short hairs back into the skin. Frequent shaving too close to the skin will trap hairs inside the follicles.
• Exfoliate! Exfoliating with a gentle scrub removes the top layer of dead cells and allows hairs to grow out more easily. It also helps soften skin, clears pores and evens out patchy skin tones.
• Many African-American men benefit from using a single-blade razor, or a DE razor. One doctor said, “I highly dissuade patients who suffer from razor bumps from using triple or quadruple blade razor systems. The closer the shave, the worse the razor bumps will be.”
• Always shave in the direction of hair growth. While shaving upward seems to give a closer shave, shaving in the hair’s direction reduces irritation and the likelihood of hairs growing back into the skin. Don’t pull skin taut when shaving since this can also cause ingrown hairs to form.
• Soften hairs before shaving by massaging warm water into the beard area and then applying a professional-grade, highly-lubricating shave creme. Allow it to sit on the face for a minute or two to completely coat hairs before shaving.
• Follow a shave with an after-shave solution that contains hydrating ingredients like aloe, witch hazel and tea tree extract like a post-shave repair creme to cut down on redness and discomfort. Stay away from products that contain alcohol since this can dry skin out and provoke an ashy appearance in black skin.
• Resist the urge to simply pluck ingrown hairs out. A new hair will just grow again, and you’ll be facing the same exact problem.
• Most importantly, take your time when shaving. Everyone’s been guilty of the 30-second shave on Monday morning, but shaving slowly and with care can dramatically reduce nicks, cuts and abrasions that can aggravate razor bumps.
• If you find that you are suffering from severe cases of inflammation or razor bumps, talk to your doctor or dermatologist. You may be a candidate for electrolysis (a low-level current is used to destroy follicles) or skin depilatories (chemical creams that soften and minimize growth).tips via menscience and mybrotha
Don’t forget to moisturize as well- especially in the winter.
Remember that scene from The 40-Year-Old Virgin? When Steve Carell’s character got his chest-waxed? Soooo painful! I just can’t see why a man would wanna go through that, but I guess Beyonce and Cassie prefer their men hairless. . .
Check out this excerpt I found from one site:
No matter the amount of money you have in you pockets $5 or $500, it doesn’t take much to keep your hair and nails up.
Every man needs to own a manicure set.
There is nothing more distasteful than seeing a man with long nails. . . its just disgusting. Having long nails makes a man look like an old-school pimp, drug dealer, drag queen, or junky. When you have long nails it’s easy for dirt to collect underneath, and what woman wants her man to touch her with long dirty nails? . . . none.
Buy your manicure set from any store: Walgreens, Target, or Publix. . .everyone has them. OR you can order them online, we have a few in The Urban Gentleman Store.
Hair is also very important . . .and for men it’s really easy to keep your hair looking good. If you have the dough then make sure you get a fresh cut every 2 weeks. And do your own shape-ups on the weeks in between. For all the longer hair guys keep the hair-do neat and be sure to keep your hair washed . . . nobody likes snowflakes in July.
Once your nails and hair are in tact you can move on to the other basics . . .
Don’t just use a Dial soap bar and a washcloth to clean your beautiful physique . . . use a body wash with cocoa butter or shea and a loofah. And if you’re blessed to have a face with great skin, then keep doing your regular face cleansing routine, but if you have bumps, pimples, or other little face blemishes try: Noxzema, Sea Breeze, and/or Proactive. Check out the best acne treatments here.
There’s nothing more refreshing than a great smile. Everyone may not have the straightest most-even and Hollywood-esque teeth, but it’s easy to have the cleanest and whitest. First off, be sure to brush and floss your teeth twice a day. Secondly, the best method to getting a killer-smile is using Crest Whitestrips. Crest Whitestrips are a guaranteed whiter smile, and I strongly believe that everyone should use them at least every 2 1/2 years. If you have really dull or yellow teeth you may want to start by using them every 4-6 months for no more than 2 years- I’ve seen some great things sticking to that teeth-whitening schedule:-) Check out the best Crest has to offer here.
Okay guys, once you have these 4 basic things down, you’re on your way to possessing characteristics that are innately gentleman-like.
Maintaining your hair, nails, skin, and teeth are not only good hygiene, but they will surely get you extra points with the ladies because those are the first things that women notice about a man.
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