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Urban Gentleman Professional Preparation: Tips for Interviews and Internships

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At The Urban Gentleman, we earnestly want you guys to be true to heart Urban Gents… Renaissance Men… basically, as sappy as this sounds, we want you all to be the best. So, being an Urban Gentleman goes beyond your Canali suits, LRG jeans, or Common Project shoes… it philanders into your professional life.
I call this time of year, “internship season”… this is the time of year that most companies begin their search for summer interns and associates. Many of the top companies begin interviewing potential candidates at the end of January through mid February, but of course their are some that extend into March and even April or later— it all depends on the industry.
First things first… you have to gain experience, so YES you need to intern throughout college. Making the grades are important as well, matter of fact some companies won’t even look at your resume if your GPA isn’t atleast a 3.0, but most companies are looking for a combination of grades and experience (i.e 3.4 gpa and two internships; if your gpa is low, then make sure your experience is high).
Depending on which year in college you start interning, I suggest completing atleast three internships to properly experience different companies and work environments. Your final internship should be with a company that you really want to work for– so basically the internship you take the summer before your senior year in undergrad. The last internship is most important because that is the the company that you may potentially work for full time. It’s also the internship that you should bring your A++ game to 100% of the time, Never slacking, and consistently building a great rapport with company executives. And if possible you want to be able to work their part-time throughout your senior year. Basically, I want to set you up to have many options when graduating from college, and that (final internship) company should sort of be your “guarantee”. But I digress, we’ll come back to those specifics at a later date, let’s first focus on securing the internship…
Here’s your To Do list:
Urban Gentleman Professional Preparation
1. Figure out what you want to do when you graduate. Now, compare that with your current major. Hopefully those two things correlate, if not, then try to find an internship that will meet you in the middle. **(more information on this after #6)
2. Look for the job. Go to your university’s career center and talk to your counselor/advisor. Look to see what jobs are being offered; most schools have websites where companies offer jobs– so gain access to that and write down all the positions you are interested in. You can also take the more straightforward route– visit the websites of companies you want to work for, find their “careers” section, then apply. Its best to do a combination of both. Also, use the connections you have, life is all about connections and who you know… so inquire about potential internships with friends, family, and associates.
3. Spruce up the resume. The format of your resume completely depends on the industry. But their are basic rules to having a great resume. In the US: resumes should be one page, include action verbs when describing what tasks you completed at a particular job, they should be concise yet descriptive, and most importantly they should be tweaked for each job you apply to depending on what the company is looking for. Basically, have about 3-5 versions of your resume. When applying for jobs outside the US, companies usually want more details on what you did, so it’s okay for the resume to be two pages, or even three. Some jobs may require cover letters, which I feel are pointless (lol), but just look online for advice on cover letters. For the most part you won’t have to deal with cover letters until you’re applying for a “real” job in corporate America, internships rarely ask for them.
4. Apply for the job. If you submit your job application online be sure to call or email two days or so after to make sure they received it. If you’re eager about the position you may or may not want to call a few weeks after you’ve submitted everything, to politely request an interview. Most companies will let you know whether or not they’ll contact you, but sometimes companies, especially smaller ones, do not. So in those cases it may, just may, be appropriate to call and request an interview.

5. Prepare for the interview. A few things go into preparing for the interview: clothing/attire, questions, and what to bring.

Clothing/attire:
What you should wear to the interview depends on the industry. Most companies want business casual, but a more traditional or prestigious firm may want full on formal business attire. If it’s an artistic or fashion company you should look chic and stylish, without over doing it– basically build an ensemble around a pair of perfectly fitting dark denim jeans. A very relaxed cultured company may prefer t-shirt and jeans. When in doubt, just call the company and ask.

Questions:
First off, you have to research the company you are applying for. Visit their website and social networking sites, print off the history and basic facts about the company. As much as I dislike the skewed “facts” and credibility of websites like Wikipedia, they often have nice basic summaries on the basic facts of companies (just never use them when you’re researching a real subject, especially one in which a person can impose their opinions into the “facts”). After gathering the company’s history, you should make a list of potential questions the interviewer may ask. Most schools have sample questions in the career center, you can also find them online. You should ask and answer a range of common questions, practice the interview with a friend or family member or setup a mock interview at school. My university suggests the STAR method when answering interview questions. I find the method to be even easier and smoother to use during interviews if you drop the ‘T’, but still keep the acronym STAR in mind. When asked a question– describe the situation, briefly discuss the actions you took in the situation, then conclude with the positive results (that are a result of the actions you took in the situation.) Very straightforward and easy to remember.
What to bring:
Always, always bring your resume, atleast 2 copies, maybe 3. Bring the page you printed with the summary of the company– you can study over this while you’re waiting. Bring chapstick, breath mints, and a mirror… you do not want chapped lips, bad breath, or an out of place hair when you go into an interview. These are all items that can fit in your pocket or in the slot of your resume portfolio or folder. Also bring a pin, paper, and a list of questions you want to ask the employer. Employers usually like it when you ask a question or two, this isn’t required, but optional… you can find a list of questions to ask at your school’s career center or online.

Also, bring any materials that they need to see– this may be your portfolio, a past project, etc. Once you’ve secured the interview ask them what you need to bring.

Please be on time, meaning get their before time. Plan to be there 30 minutes before time.

6. A few days after the interview send a thank you letter to your interviewer. Emails are most efficient, but you could also send a thank you note in the mail– it’s pretty old school, but may stand out among the other applicants (as long as it doesn’t get lost in the shuffle of all their other mail).

Now all you can do is pray that you get the job, so be patient and wait. Continue to apply for other positions in the meanwhile.

**(extension of 1. Figure out what you want to do….)

If your major is business, but you really want to be an artist… look for a business related job at an art gallery or museum. If your major is industrial engineering, but you really want to work in graphic design, try to secure a position at an industrial design firm (but just make sure you can show your creativity in some kind of way). If you are not able to combine your major to what you actually want to do, then look for a job that matches your major. Why do I say that? Well, because you can always build up experience with what you most eagerly want to do since you have a passion for it.

I have a friend who is a biomedical engineer, but has a passion for art. She enjoys her career as a biomedical engineer, but loves painting more than anything else; she paints the most amazing oil paintings. She’s able to sell all of her paintings and has made quite a living off her passion, so much so that in a few years she could probably just be an artist. But in the meanwhile she works in her industry to build her foundation and to build up her bank account. Always remember the quote, “We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do” (from the Great Debaters). So sometimes you have to prioritize and focus on the career that will make you the most money and will allot you the most opportunities, but then use the funds you make to jumpstart the career that will truly make you happy. Some may call it settling, but it’s only settling if you don’t stick to the game plan. I have three friends/associates who worked for top investment banking firms for a few years, they got tired of the long hours and workload so they quit. They were able to use the couple hundred thousands they had saved from working to open their own businesses doing what they love. This option is not for everyone, but it is for many. If you’ve spent 4-5 years studying engineering, accounting, computer science, or some type of specific major then you should use that degree you worked hard for to fund your passions. Once you’ve smartly saved and planned, you can drop the job and focus on a career doing what you really love.

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Remember summer internships are more competitive than fall and spring internships. So if you aren’t able to secure one for the summer, don’t worry in the least bit, you have plenty of other options:
- take summer classes (get ahead in class)
- travel to a foreign land/study abroad
- join a summer long volunteer organization like Americorps
- get a retail job that correlates to what you want to do (if you want work in fashion work at your favorite clothing store, if you want to work in technology secure a job at Best Buy or the Mac Store, etc).
- become an entrepreneur: offer tutoring services to kids (drop off flyers at your local elementary/middle/high school), cut hair, make t-shirts, become a party promoter, sell unwanted items on eBay or Craigslist, etc.
Then towards the middle/end of the summer begin looking for fall internships. These internships can also be competitive sometimes since you may have recent college graduates vying for the position, but if you start your search early enough and put in enough applications you should be able to score atleast one job offer. Spring internships are usually the easiest to obtain… much less competition than in the summer and fall.
More Interview Help/Tips:



- Glassdoor.com has to be one of the best websites for those in the process of interviewing for jobs. Past and current employees write about their interviews, salaries, and experiences with the company. Many people even provide you with the specific questions they were asked at specific companies in specific locations. They even let you know if they did or didn’t get the job. Be sure to check this website out.

- If you don’t already have one spend a few bucks and purchase a resume portfolio. Check out a few here. The black Manchester Zippered Padfolio is a great option (only $30).

- You can get more information and tips with suits/business casual attire here.

I hope these tips are able to help a few of you! Be sure to bookmark it for feature reference. Feel free to give more interview and internship searching tips by commenting below.

Summertime Style: Examples of How To Keep Cool (and stay handsome) in the Summer, Tips and Photos

I’ve been getting alot of emails about how to keep cool in the hot summer months, here’s one of the recent emails :

Question:

Hi. I’m a 30 year old urban gent from Birmingham, Al. My girlfriend lives in Tallahassee so I usually there on holidays and weekends. Recently I’ve changed to an older more sophisticated look. Similar to Kendrack Lewis your most recent featured urban gent. My problem is I don’t know what to wear when it’s really hot. When the temp is in the 90′s, it’s really humid, and sweating is unavoidable. Could you help me out?

Answer:

Hey (name of Alabama gentleman)

When it’s hot keep it simple… its all about wearing quality or proper fitting clothing. Examples of looks to wear on a hot summer day:

1. white polo, seer sucker shorts, navy boat shoes
2. white/colored short sleeves v-neck, very light-weight cardigan with the sleeves rolled up, khaki shorts, canvas shoes
3. long sleeve plaid shirt w/ the sleeves rolled up, jeans, and your choice of shoes

accessorize with a nice pair of trendy shades like black wayfarers and you’re good to go.

The thing is Steven, I know its Really hot, but you’re a gentleman so its never really appropriate to wear combinations like tanks, shorts, and flip-flops unless you’re going to the beach… again, I know its hot, but guys just don’t have as easy as women when it comes to looking very stylish and keeping very cool in the sun… we can always just put on a sleeveless light weight dress and sandals, which would be the coolest thing we could put on aside from a bikini.

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The gentleman above was focused on keeping his look sophisticated, that’s why I gave him the options above. But, if you’re a hipster of sorts then you could pull of the tank/shorts/flip flops look depending on the combination.

I pulled some photos from the Sartorialist (one of my fav street style blogs), that I feel are nice examples of summer Gentleman gear…









What do you see…


- mostly light colors with the exception of navy
- shorts are right at or just above the knees
- sockless w/ loafers, boat shoes, or sandals
(some people say gentleman do not wear sandals,
but I’ll leave that up to you)
- long sleeve shirts and sweaters are rolled up
- top buttons un-done (usually 2)

For more info, check out:
- Summer Rolls
- Sockless
- Sartorialist Does Brooklyn

Also for the summer months:
- carry a linen handkerchief/pocketsquare to dab at sweat
- use sunblock
- always carry sunglasses and/or a hat
- drink LOTS of water
- boxers may keep you cooler than briefs
- use a good deodorant
- consider taking a quickie mid day shower in addition to your morning or night shower, this usually keeps you a little more cool

photos: Sartorialist.blogspot.com

Urban Gentleman Q&A: Advice on Casual Shoes

Question:

Hi

I am currently very gradually trying to smarten up my wardrobe, and I would like to wear more trousers (casually) rather than jeans, with fitted polos, nice shirts, blazers etc. However, I am finding it difficult to find some suitable footwear for such a smart casual look. I like boat-shoes, and will be picking up a navy or brown pair, but they are more kinda summer wear. I find most loafers, mocs to be too formal, so I was wondering to you have any advice on what type of smart-casual shoes can be worn with trousers.


Answer:

Hi (Urban Gent’s name- who’s from England),

I actually had a gentleman email me about a similar dilemma recently- he was trying to find an alternative to the sneaker (so yanno somewhat similar). I advised him to consider:

- boat shoes (sebago/sperrries)
- oxfords
- “dressy sneakers”
- vans (like Pharrell)
- boots

I see that you’re already halfway there since you have purchased a pair of boat shoes (sebagoes/sperries). After securing a pair of those then the type of casual shoe you wear is totally dependent on your style. I am personally a big fan of oxfords- there are so many different styles of oxfords and they easily smarten up the wardrobe.

Other options:
- very casual wingtip lace-up
- drivers
- moccasins (only if this fits your personality)

Here’s a link of examples from Urban Outfitters: click here. Since the pound is almost double the dollar you can easily order from there (but I think you have to add $50 to the total order)… I really like the Schmoove Oxford, the Generic Surplus Oxford, and the Ben Sherman Vacations Lace-Ups.

Drivers are basically the everyday casual shoe for the man that pretty much doesn’t wear sneakers anymore unless he’s going to the gym or participating in an outdoor activity (that’s sort of my view on it anyway). I don’t like all drivers because some tend to look a bit old and dated, but there are plenty that are sleek and stylish- check some of the drivers out at Neimans: click here. From that page I like the Gucci leather driver- 3rd row number 4, the other Gucci leather driver- 5th row number 4, and the Cole Haan venetian moccasin driver- 5th row number 1…. Also I know alot of men that really love the Ferregamo drivers. You don’t have to buy those exact shoes, but those just give you an idea of the styles that may work for you.

If you want a shoe that is, perhaps, a step between sneakers and oxfords then you could try a “dressy sneaker”… basically like a leather converse or designer tennis shoes- Hugo Boss, Lanvin, etc etc (preferably in a solid color).

** this question is a little dated (about a month and a half– so the shoes I’m referring to may not be there anymore or in the same order, but you can still get the general idea).

Date Night with Your Lady

Gotta have a date night w/ your booskie:-)

On the weekends I try to give you gentlemen different type of advice… something that is applicable to the weekends. Topics over the past few weeks:

- The Perfect Club Attire
- How To Prepare For a Female Visitor

And this week: Date Night With Your Lady

Every Gentleman has to take out time to spend with his boo, atleast once a week- to show her that you care. And the time you spend does not have to cost you $3oo and some change… I mean you can spend that much- I’m sure it would be much appreciated, but you don’t have to:-)

Here are some really fun, cute, inexpensive (and kinda expensive) dates you can have with your lady:

1. Dinner & a Movie (yaaaawn)

It’s been done, you probably already do it if you don’t then it’s a cute alternative… otherwise try to think more creatively.

2. Chinese Take-Out in the Park

Instead of doing the traditional: pack some food in a basket and head out to the park on a sunny afternoon. Try packing some really good chinese take-out and heading out to your prettiest local park one evening. You could also bring an ipod player so you both can enjoy some romantic music (perhaps a little Coltrane). Now this does sound easier than it is because you’ll have to bring a blanket and some OFF- just in case the mosquitoes come lurking.

3. Roof-top Sunrise

This is pretty cheesy and it may seem kinda unrealistic, but it’s more doable than you think. If you live in a major city this is easy because there are so many buildings that have ladders or stairs on the side that lead to the rooftop. Once on the rooftop relax, talk, really get to know each other, get completely lost in conversation about life and the future then before you know it you’ll see a beautiful sunrise. It’s really romantic and you’ll feel like you’re in a movie! If you’re worried about getting caught trespassing then go to a rooftop of one of your friend’s apartment buildings – it should give the same effect… (note: if this is planned you should atleast bring a blanket).

4. Cartoons and Junk Food

Okay this one isn’t for every chick, but for certain ones this will be really fun. Get a few seasons of The Boondocks, Family Guy, or South Park– though explicit and often time racist and derogatory these cartoons are funny as hell. While watching these shows pig out on a few of her favorite guilty pleasures maybe m&ms, doritos, papa johns and just have fun. (be sure to have plenty of bottled water to offset all the sugar and salt)

5. Salsa Lessons
This is always fun, if you haven’t done it then you need to. Google salsa clubs or salsa lessons given in your area, then setup a time to go. You could make it into a complete Latin night by taking her to a tasty Spanish restaurant after the lessons.

6. Jazz Night
Jazz nights are the best! They make you feel “grown & sexy” (yes I know that phrase is dead, lol, but it’s appropriate for this sentence). Every city has Jazz Nights- it may be at a restaurant, museum, club- just find out where and make sure you go. If you’re from Atlanta I highly recommend Jazz at the High Museum (every 3rd Friday).

7. Unique Restaurant
Everyone goes out to eat, it’s just a basic for the whole dating thing. But for your special chick switch it up by taking her to a unique restaurant. Like a house that was turned into a restaurant or a themed restaurant- just somewhere really different and new.

8. Get-a-way In the City
One of the most romantic dates is when you “get-a-way” in the city. Choose a really elegant hotel and book a room for a night. Order room service, watch movies, give each other massages and just get it on!

At the end of the day, it’s all about thinking outside the box- have fun and be sporadic! Do things that make you both happy:-)

Masculine Etiquettes: How To Prepare For a Female Visitor

If you want to end up like these guys, follow the list below


It’s the weekend and I know many of you will have female visitors in your humble abodes. So I wanted to let you know that one of the biggest turn-offs for women is visiting a man’s house when it’s out-of–order, messy, jacked-up, funky, dirty, lol . . . you get what I’m saying:-)

Here’s a quick checklist of things to do when preparing for a female visitor:

1. Clean the living room: this is the first place she’ll see and be.

2. Clean the bathroom: this is so pertinent because if it’s nasty, she’ll think you’re nasty and you’ll quickly loose points with her, lol

3. Clean the kitchen: who knows, she may want to cook for you.

4. Clean the bedroom: this is mainly for men who have roommates or plan to get some nookie.

5. Make sure the place smells good: Use atleast 2 scented candles or 2 Glade plug-ins.

6. Make sure there are no annoying roommates around: they can easily kill the mood.

7. Make sure your satellite or cable is working, if not have a variety of movies prepared.

8. Make sure you smell good, have fresh breath, and
clean cut nails
(long dirty nails are a HUGE turnoff)

9. Have a few drinks and snacks prepared: strawberries, grapes, and bottled water are good choices. Maybe some alcohol. .

10.If you do plan on “getting busy”make sure you have condoms and massage oils ready: always use protection- there are waaaay to many STDs out there now-a-days!

Now, I know alot of these may seem pretty obvious, but you’d be surprised how many guys let women come over to dirty smelly places- its not a good look. So print this list out and post it on the fridge. . . have a GRAND weekend!

For references on Grooming, Breath-enhancers, and Colognes click on those words.

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